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Honoring Aging Loved Ones (HALO) Seminar

Caring for the Caregiver (PEERS)

PEERS Caring for the Caregiver

  • Physically
  • Emotionally
  • Economically
  • Relationally
  • Spiritually

Physically

  • Caregiving is Exhausting Work
    The caregivers own health and well-being may be at risk.
    • Physical Rest
    • Seek help: family, community, professional, church
    • Prioritize, re-create as needed
    • Energize yourself-take time for the things you enjoy.
    • Get respite


Emotionally

  • Think realistically-Avoid Unrealistic Expectations
    • Don't take on more than you can handle
    • Set limits
  • Guilt
    • Misguided Guilt: Self- imposed or by others wanting you to feel guilt
    • True Guilt: Wake up call from the Holy Spirit
  • Don't go it alone- Ask

Economically

  • Utilize Resources
  • Evaluate your job for flexibility and benefits.
  • Recognize limitations
  • Plan for daily needs
  • Plan for emergencies
  • Plan for long term needs

Relationally Family Dynamics

  • Unequally shared responsibilities may lead to frustration, stress, resentment
  • Resolve Conflict: Family Meeting
  • Establish roles and responsibilities
  • Focus on facts
  • Solution:
    • Prayer
    • Open honest communication
    • Support group or friends
    • Professional consult

Spiritually

  • Reaffirm your faith and calling.
  • Pray: Ask for the Lord's strength, patience, grace, wisdom, and encouragement. Do your personal bible study.
  • As you allow Holy Spirit to enlighten you, you will become better equipped to encourage your elder's faith and spiritual growth.
 
HALO Resources
Introduction
Honoring Our Aging Loved Ones
Encouragement for the Caregiver
HALO Websites and Reading
   

 


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